a Life torn by Love, a collection
if you ever feel like there is a lot to unpack, you're probably right
Monday 9 August 2021
Prosecco for one
Tuesday 29 June 2021
Shingles and the three years before that
Welcome back.
This might be a longer one. Grab yourself a cuppa and settle in. This is the story of my granny killing disease and the three years before that. I think it might be connected, then again, maybe it isn't.
About two weeks ago I had horrible lower back pain, none of the usual hip stretches and back cracking techniques seemed to work. I am a professional at this, as I have scoliosis, back pain is one of the only constants in my life. Pru, my friend, who's hands have healed and touched many, said my back was one of the worst ones she had seen, so much tension I must be in constant pain. She wasn't wrong. I knew this was different though, pinched nerve kind of pain.
Soon after, the pain had spread to a large patch across my hip and back, it felt like that time when I got sunstroke in Columbia a day after spending three days in a Christian cult. That time, when I was vomiting my guts out, I remember thinking that this is my body cleansing itself from all the stress, fear, greediness, and essentially, pure evil, purging it out of my system. All of my skin was painful to touch, just like then, but we had had horrible weather for a while so I knew it wasn't that. For some reason though, I thought of shingles, a weird disease that is only curable by old witches and words of God, at least in Latvia. After the rashes started to appear and I was in more pain than ever in my life, I found out that in the UK you get antiviral medicine. I walked out of that A&E armed with prescriptions for both, shingles and my depression. I had run out of antidepressants about three weeks ago and since then, well, I think I experienced mania, a mental shake-up like never before and the lesson of my life. I needed to be medicated again, it was getting too close to the bottom, again.
This is also when I realised that all of this started three years ago when my ex moved out of our Camden maisonette.
The trigger this time was a storm of so many elements, it's hard to grasp the scope of it. I guess the beginning was in a very good place, I had found out that I will receive a first honours degree for my Bachelor's and the four-day dissertation, I had started writing creatively, drawing, meeting new people, taking care of other people out of the most pure intensions, really putting all of myself into everything I did. I was the happiest I had been in nearly all my life. So, as life would have it, there was a black cat in need of a better home. Only later I realised I had seen a black cat with dark orange eyes in a meditation months ago, then more recently, even drawing a picture of it. She was on her way for a while already.
Shit hit the fan, as it does so often and I ended up with a very angry woman trying to manipulate her way through my friends into me giving the cat back to her. If you are confused, I was too, but her reasons for getting the cat back were not out of love or concern for the animal, thats me in the story. She is a complicated person, but she wanted to hurt me by taking away an animal that I clearly loved and wanted so much. Now Olive, the black maniac cat, is happily asleep in her window hammock, just above my head, after a day of eating, spilling water everywhere and showing me her affection. She's a healthy kitten now, the best diet, best toys, constant love and care by everyone in the apartment of a scientist, an aspiring writer, a musician and an artist. Sounds like an anecdote, but we also actually have a sweet little dog with brain damage. It doesn't get better than this.
During the few hours when the shit was actively hitting the fan, Olive was home, safe and sound, however I was not there. On the verge of tears, in full protective mode, shaking from the fear of her being taken away, I was on a walk, when blue-eyes Habibi asked why I was so affected by this. "Because everyone always leaves", the tone half choked, half angry, eyes wondering across the Thames as we cross the bridge and into Chelsea. My dreamy yellow dress seemed uncomfortable, the peonies in my arms were nice and made me smile, but I was an emotional wreck nevertheless. Blue-eyes ordered me home soon after, I had to be reunited with my precious. On the way home, angry and psychologically complex messages were being thrown at me like daggers, undeserved, in my opinion. Panic growing, I ran towards the door, up in the elevator, to the door, into my room. My flatmate, angel of a person, sitting there with Olive, doing just fine, I throw all my things onto the bed and after a quick moment of silence, I break down, screaming about what the fuck is wrong with people, tears squeezing through, my voice loud and angry. I stop, start explaining the situation, with shaky hands I roll a joint, smoke it, pet the cat, talk more, roll another one. I brace myself, I deal with the whole situation, loose friends on the way and walk out with a large red patch across my ass from the smack that the universe gave me with this one. I'm referring to the shingles, by the way.
It is no secret that this disease that can kill your granny is mainly caused by extreme emotional distress. It is safe to assume where that last drop came from. But the danger wasn't the lady, it was my lack of safety, or at least I perceived it so. In my mind, when I received the first messages earlier that day, the lady was in my room taking away my cat, tackling my flatmates along the way, Olive never to be seen again. It was a very unlikely situation, she didn't even have my current address. Additionally, there are multiple secure doors, floors, and people around me that I could deal with most of it by calling the police. What rattled me actually was some repeated trauma involving people taking dear things away from me, from people leaving, from people coming into the middle of my life and setting it on fire, making me lose all the things that I want, love and care for. And also because people sometimes just leave. I struggle with people leaving, that comes from a life full of flakiness, two dads, and other occasional emotionally immature people you tangle paths with. That's what came out on the bridge.
The last few years I have spent in relationships with people where I had put all my weight on them, suffocating them, leaving them feeling like the relationship was one-sided, saving my broken ass. They weren't wrong. Recently I had separated from someone that is probably the most incredible love story to date, including all fifty or so "goodbye"'s. I guess that was why losing those who mean a lot to me was so close to the surface, ready to show the face in all its glory, like right now, as it tears my chest apart and makes me want to scream, leaving me breathless.
My first ever big adult crisis was half a year after moving to London. That's when my ex moved out of our Camden maisonette. The relationship was doomed for a while, the breakup wasn't the actual issue, I think we are both much happier now, apart, for good. He took, rightfully so, as they were his, all the dishes, the kettle, the toaster, all his stuff apart from a golden world map, now proudly hanging on my wall, and the old wifi box, that's still traveling from apartment to apartment with me, now residing on the top of my kitchen shelves. I was without money, without mum, my usual saving grace but with two coffee mugs. Thankfully, by wanting to escape the relationship, I had embraced the new life in London and had friends who provided emotional support, concerned smiles at my "everything is fine" phrase I used 7x a minute and a helping hand on the trip to IKEA. It was a valuable lessen back then, losing every piece of basic needs and security, having that "shit I'm alone in London and I don't even have cutlery" kind of moment. It took an emotional toll on me, I cried for a while and started writing letters to myself. Half motivating, half explanatory, with the occasional "you'll be fine in a while" thrown for inspiration. As my life took turns beating the shit out of me, I kept writing those letters, once in a while attempting to be inspired. That first adult experience of having to deal with life all on my own made me write.
I have had many heartaches, I am very very emotional and sensitive, every person in my life can tell you that. The two and a half years after the IKEA trip were more than saturated with big adult fuckup moments, big adult problems, big adult heartbreaks and life lessons. I felt like "a typewriter being kicked down the stairs" (Dylan Moron, the legend).
Tonight I woke up from my nap and realised that my current existence is a waste of space and essentially, life. I have like maybe sixty summers left. A month ago I wrote countless lists filled with ideas that were flooding my brain, pictures, creativity everywhere, appreciation for every moment and situation. So, I sat down, continued drawing a face that fascinates me, moved on to writing and sealing a few post cards and then decided to stop procrastinating. All the happiness that I had a month ago, although sucked out of me at the moment, came to me when I was confronting my fears, and my fear was writing, but writing something uninspired, an old story, something dry and basically a contemporary lie. I decided to be as genuine and pure to myself as I have been towards others, so selflessly. I'm being selfless to myself. My therapist would be proud to read these words.
I strongly encourage feedback.
With love,
Anna
Thursday 17 June 2021
I am the
・ I am the・
I am the "we had a special night together"
I am the "why aren't you wearing the thing I got you"
I am the "call me daddy one more time"
I am the "but I do think it's a good idea"
I am rarely truly listened to
Without their minds wondering up and down
And up and down again
Undressing me with their eyes
Ignoring my voice as they only hear theirs
I am rarely my mind
Or my pain, tears, smiles, too much emotion, yet
The motions of my body is all that moves them
To go further, faster, longer
The soft pleads to stop are encouraging
Angel I'm trying to protect you
They get the WRONG idea, don't even want to hear it
"I am not like that" is their line
No need to be defensive if not guilty, right?
Nobody wants to acknowledge the truth
because it's uncomfortable
I know
Wednesday 2 June 2021
A Secret Window into my Mind
Thursday 20 May 2021
Auntie Anna, Mission Day One
To Her,
You arrived with the first
thunder of the summer,
You were our sweet cherry on top,
the bringer of new chapters,
one of our own.
The newest member to the
all-powerful sisterhood,
so strong, brave and beautiful.
You are the beginning for us,
the force that carries us.
You will always have our hearts,
as you bloom into
all your wildest dreams.
-Auntie Anna
What a day. She's home, she's beautiful, healthy, sleepy and just.. perfect. I just spent the last week on the phone to my strong and incredible friend, awaiting the arrival of Her, getting ready to go, then not, and then I felt so helpless, as my friend was telling me about issues arising, accompanied by pain for days before and after. I am in awe.
Today, I arrived there early, unwrapping my new spare keys from duct tape, carrying Prosecco, coffee and just ridiculous amounts of roses. In-between the chatting and directing the house-keeper, I organised clothes, tyres, tools, wires, baby clothes, empty shampoo bottles, getting rid of anything and everything that was left and could potentially cause unnecessary headache. My priority right now is less unnecessary movement and crying.
When my beautiful friends arrived in a while cab with Her, I was snapping photos and just being so overwhelmed by what was happening, I don't think I actually realised what had happened. The rest of the day was so hectic, with another 1 year old calling me duck and giving me the best hugs ever, cooking dinner, cleaning, running up and down their staircase and also holding Her. I had never held a newborn before, I was slightly anxious but I think my flatmates dog provided some exercise, the little sweet Yorkie, he is very fragile and depends on me to hold him for his life too.
When I held Her, it felt so natural. So calming and wonderful, there is nothing like it. She just made herself comfortable on my chest, completely ignoring the spilt coffee on my shirt and just snoozed away. While she was dreaming of the future, I was confronting my past. Her father and I had a conversation, leading to the question of my relationships. I had to explain that I was on my own now, really weirdly struggling to hold the tears back. It felt like the baby had opened me up to my core and would not let me mask a single thing. So I sat there, tears rolling down my cheeks, realising that the reason I was so upset is because I had never grieved the thought of my own children with this person. We had discussed it, I was so deeply connected to him, the thought of me as a Mother and him as the Father was nearly natural. We both get along great with kids, we both want them, we would be decent parents. But the fault here is thinking about it as if it is the reality. It never happened, it was an illusion that dressed the life we had, the future plan, the string that ties you together even stronger, making it harder to leave, offering another reason why to stay.
As the night went on, I got so used to being in that house, with my incredible friends and Her, that neither leaving or staying felt right. When I did get home around midnight, I was so incredibly tired, so overrun by today's events that I didn't know what to do. I made a cuppa (tea for those not here), I changed into my flannel shirt and smoked a joint while watching Mixed-Ish. The end result was supposed to be me falling asleep. And yet I could not settle, even after two episodes. Staying up late isn't unusual for me, but I really wanted to consciously be a good influence on myself. When nothing else works, I put on a meditation video, they have one with every feeling and issue in the title, go find your warrior. So, I decided to Reset: Decompress your Body and Mind, hoping to be able to clear and deal with some of today's events. Instead, I ended up sobbing, loudly, grieving my relationship, the potential family, my miscarriage many years back, at all the could have's and maybe's. I could feel my body reacting to Her so much, like I had been missing that, not actually, but more like my body finally doing what it started. It also made it clear for me that I am better off being the Auntie Anna for a long time for now. I couldn't do this without the right people around.
I ended up writing this blog because I had to "imprison my thoughts in words before they escape", as my mentor said. And I have to say, I am feeling so grateful for the new and remaining wonders of life, albeit I carry a bittersweet taste on my tongue, as my world has recently been burnt down and I sort of miss it. A quick pit-stop at the sulky self-pity never hurt nobody, just made the future experiences brighter.
I also would like to encourage people to reach out to me, genuinely. I'd like to read the work that some of you are doing, or any interesting stories you have, not that I need content, I've got plenty. I just love connecting to people and spend hours revisiting stories and memories, examining them from every angle, webbing a new network of connections and explanations. I also love when people relate to me. Feels like I'm somehow not too alone, especially when the people you admire admit that they are also human.
With love,
Auntie Anna
Wednesday 19 May 2021
Same Thing, Different Font: My Body
My therapist was smiling today.
The flow of conversation was so familiar, so intact, so bouncy, back and forth with questions and answers and then explanations and explorations. "And what feeling might that be?" is a common question. Sometimes I struggle with naming them, I never really learned the nitty-gritty of feelings and their names, I just felt them and them either a. exploded, b. suppressed, c. hurt myself.
So let's explore that, keep the wave going.
The hurting was never the movie type, I didn't have 13 reasons why nor was I looking for them. I hurt myself by over-exercising until I smiled from the pain, finding release in the physical activity, as emotionally those feelings were trapped. I did this around the age of 13, I believe. I was pretty ripped, not going to lie. However, the other way of hurting myself has been food. I have weeks when I just cannot eat. The thought of it makes me feel all sorts of uncomfortable. It's like when you are in love and the butterflies are too much to handle but they are bats from the depths of hell. Later in life I gained weight, causing me to reflect on this whole issue from a completely different angle.
When I was born, I was tiny, when I was a child, I was tiny, hearing that the wind would blow me away (a few times it's been an actual concern for me), people asking me if I am sick, or, on the contrary, praising me for my fragile body. At that point, I had never even thought of my body in any way, it was me, I was questioning why I am Me, but the body? That was the vessel, not really important. But then, life happened and my body became the only stable thing left. It had proven itself that I was not gaining any weight easily, so my eating habits, physical exercise, sleep as well as drugs/cigarettes/alcohol, were all fluctuating, some from extremely high to low in a day, some keeping high for an extended period of time, really not much of a pattern. Not a problem, apparently.
I looked great, felt alright and my head was still functioning, I was a-ok. The modelling happened somewhere along the way and now, for the first time, at the young age of 15 or so, I was getting paid to just put on or take clothes off, stare into the camera and smile. Objectification of my body had started much earlier in my life, but these were the first experiences with literal exchange of money for pictures of my body and face. At the time, I thought I was crushing it, I was driven around in brand new cars, got to travel a bit, felt great, my social media looked fun as hell and I loved the vibe most of the time. It was my escape from the bullies and mean faceless people, I got to go to the studio after school and work on creative projects for hours. I learned about photo editing, lights and setup, about colour correcting, cameras, lenses, weights, angles. I am still continuing to learn about it now, I have a few passionate friends, I really enjoy it.
There is another angle to this, however. Dancing was always a huge part of my life, turns out, it kept my body in shape for years, without me really noticing. Until I started collapsing on dance floors and loosing all feeling in my right side of the body on my way home form a 3h training session. The start was less dramatic. Maybe not, you be the judge. When I was about 4/5 years old, I refused to continue traditional Latvian dancing classes (by refusing to enter the room, although I was fully dressed and ready to participate) and wanted to join the hip-hop girls instead. So I did, those girls were my family, I'm so excited to see so many of them to continue dancing, making it into a career.
Then, when I was in Germany, I danced for many different groups and coaches, sometimes spending whole week-days in the studio, and mostly every weekend for the better part of the eight years I lived there had something to do with dancing. Oh, that world is full of characters, like coaches who steal money from outfits to probably spend it on drugs, people who completely cut you off as soon as you move and people who actually continue to gas you up as you go on in your life. The good and the bad, it's all there. But that community did not help with the body image issue, most of the time I didn't have enough ass to shake or tits to show. Well, at least I was in the front most of the time, I could give myself credit for that.
When I left, I feel like I left my body in Germany. My first night in London was horrible, I didn't even want to be here anymore. I had three heavy suitcases, my whole life neatly packed inside, weighing about my body-weight of 54kg or so. I will forever remember the taste of blood in my mouth after sitting down on the train, surrounded by the suitcases, panting, and sobbing, alone. I was ready to turn around, I hated everything. I hated my boyfriend at the time for not picking me up from the airport, I hated that I was so weak and I hated that I had to start all over again and pretend to be happy about it.
Things changed quickly after that, my boyfriend at the time controlled much of my life, getting me hypnotised to stop smoking, I was eating semi-healthy and he commented on my intake of alcohol and forbid drugs. I mean, fair enough, but I was not going to go all clean and perfect for a guy. So I escaped into university, oh first year was busy, fun, tipsy and wild. The alcohol intake, especially after breaking up with the guy, went through the roof. In the spring I started working in a pub, to add to the mix of unhealthiness - I was eating horrible food, I was not exercising or dancing and surprise! The girl who would eat garlic bread and drink coke at 3am to gain weight suddenly didn't fit into any of her clothes. I was up nearly 10kg at my 'heaviest'. While so many people saw me as "finally healthy", for me it was a literal nightmare.
My body had been the foundation of myself, it's the one thing that never changed, the one thing that stayed the same, the one thing I could rely on, the one thing that helped me and saved me. I was so depressed and insecure, I still am careful when looking at old pictures. Really have to quiet the critical voice down that is telling me all sorts of unkind things. I sure do have a lot of opinions. One aligned with another and an unhealthy obsession into food, nutrition and body-image was born. I say "unhealthy" because it left a permanent damage on me, I now tend to starve myself for extended periods of time, because I used diets and exercise for the wrong reasons. I made a wrong connection between food, pleasure, happiness and deserving. So that is where I have been stuck for a while now, very skinny, fragile to the eye. However, I mask well, for myself and others around me too - I love big clothing, I have found a new love for fashion, I am excited to distract myself from my body.
Slowly, I think it's time I get this thing under control. Hot girl summer is around the corner, and I have got a book to write.
With Love,
Anna
Sunday 16 May 2021
Never Feeling like Lewis Hamilton
this one is a wild ride,
strap in.
"lights out and away we go"
Sitting Childhood
People often describe me or my life as a rollercoaster. It fits like the a glove, that saying, it does. Some even have said it suits me, a backhanded compliment if you look close enough, not that there is any need for that, my lovely cousin said it. I think she was right too. Calm and stable didn't suit me, back then, in her Hannover palace, high above the streets of our area, drinking so much wine, talking for hours on end. I would spend many nights there, one time her neighbour broke into her apartment. Horribly traumatic, I wasn't there though, but that surely was a surprise for all parties involved, you see, he was trying to get home. Poor soul, broke the whole damn door frame off. Fixed it after.
Although, that might not left as much damage on us as the repetitiveness of chair squeaking, grunts, coffee and, with peace and love*, repetitions of Vitas - 7th Element. Great artist, love his story, alien dudes are always welcome in my world, but I don't think I ever will be the same. This environment was created due to some alignment of personal milestones of my own and my dear cousin's too. She lived down the street from me, I had reached my big girl moment, the big girl final exams, and she was working from home and writing her Master's. During the day we would both write, work, chat, drink coffee, smoke cigarettes, talk about future plans, exchange clothes and laugh, a lot. Evenings were spent playing games, drinking wine and philosophising about the world, revision of the past and telling each other secrets about lost earrings, jealousy about grandmothers and confessions of true appreciation, in our own ways. This might be one of mine. She introduced me to Tokyo Hotel, if anyone wanted to know.
By the way, I totally failed my history exam. Look, Herr Ludden, I'm doing the thing you told me to do!
My own LH and the Mercedes people
I'll keep this one short, so the anxiety is brief.
So, the universe played an evil trick on me and I got my own LH, working for the team, getting my passion re-lit at the age of 20. He knows a lot about it, he has a strategical brain, the opposite of mine. One of our biggest compliments towards each other. And biggest flaws. Moving on, I would sit there, watch the race and observe, memorise his words until I understood their meaning. I watched so much Formula 1 content, I think I deserve an acknowledgement of some sort. I learned about the language, and the history, past races, circuits, rivalries, oh the personal relationships are incredible! The whole sport is connected by these threads, pinching and passing through decades, people, names, conflicts, contracts, lies and conspiracies and... love. For the sport, for the personalities, achievements, personal vendettas, titles, points and for each other.
I met people who work in the sport, shared some fun memories with them, read their palms and attempted, allegedly, for entertainment purposes only, to predict their relationships, financial success (there was some serious potential there) and other deeply intimate things that no one should allow a 22 year old stranger to expose at a dinner party. Anyhow, great people, really showed me why this sport is so amazing and why Mercedes have been winning for such a long time.
Talking about embarrassing stories. Here's one.
The Uber Driver who I Sold my Underwear to
Around the same time I was reading hands, I shared with the same group of strangers, mind you, in a very casual way, that I had sold my underwear to an Uber driver a few months back, when I was traveling to meet a dear friend. It was consensual and very liberating for me, but it all originated in what I like to call "Questionable-Actions-In-Recent-Months-Part 1".
Around the time of my heartbreak (number eternally outstanding), I had gone down a little motivational episode, going on a mission to retrieve forks, become friends with these interesting people that would intervene in these stories in such unique ways, I was also following squirrels and felt like there was a new beginning around the corner. So far the highlights included offers of old dildos, intelligent conversations in pink lighting, cut knees from cutting rose bushes, killed insects, sunbathing in the common area, a lot of long summer nights with friends, love you all. All mildly infuriating but still respectful. It also involved repeated climbing over my green bushes in front of my balcony, living with my friend Louise, moving onto the balcony, the roses eventually blooming, me slowly becoming 22 and homeless and seeing the slow and comical decline of an acquaintance to a passed out status on boat parties.
Indeed, this is directly involved with the time when me and my friend, who has the same birthday as me, shout out to my soul-sister, Pru, decided to start a company. Selling our worn underwear in a way I won't disclose, because I still might make that happen. Anyway, we have a concept, very shaky sponsors, interested clientele, design - first drawn on my arm by my ex-flatmate who joined us for a drink, who I also might have matched on Tinder with many moons ago, a name, website, products, ideas and distance, we're about half a world away. Before all that took place, I made some independent sales, sharing the money as a "see-you-soon partner", rather than anything else.
I would end up following her to Bulgaria for two or three weeks, I encountered all sorts of things there, some still very dear to me. I refer to blond wise men, international friends, stray dogs and kittens, now probably full grown cuddles of joy. I watched the start of the Istanbul race, just down the coast from me, further than I could reach at the time due to the pandemic, next to an old couple, hesitant to engage, but when I mirrored my excitement for the start, the old man started to utter in all languages, speaking about tyres and strategies and Hamilton, Vettel, Max, haha, it all made it in. We shared his phone screen for the first two laps. I washed it down with some sunshine and a pint of the local beer, in the chairs of Cubo, with my dogs as bodyguards, surrounding me, pacing up and down, causing me to intervene and correct them. The freedom I felt there was different. I was swimming in the night, alone, just me and the stars, on the edge of the world, as far as I was concerned. So much hunger for the unknown. And distant dreams coming true, like dancing on the roof tops, with the whole town surrounding us, Bossa Nova and the waves providing the sound. The drink of choice was wine, I believe.
Never Feeling like Lewis Hamilton in Therapy
As I have tried to tell you, Formula 1 has been on my mind for a while now. Nearly one year ago, I told my therapist how upset I was that I would never feel like Lewis Hamilton. And by that I mean realistically, theoretically, spiritually, physically, in any possible way, I would not fully understand and feel the way Lewis Hamilton feels when he wins a race, a battle, a world championship. It deeply upsets me, clearly. If I tried to drive the car it would literally snap my neck and kill me.
I proposed jumping out of a plane as an equal competitor for the thrill, I have friends who do that, I could probably make that happen. But it still does not cut it, there is no childhood training involved, my parents struggled for different reasons, I was not him, he was not me, it's actually not that deep.
But it is, kind of.
The quest for my Lewis Hamilton equivalent thrill has begun and I will not rest until I get there. I really would like to speak to him about this, so please, people who know him or know the other people, I kindly ask. No pressure, I just want to have a chat, hang out, write, talk about dogs, connect minds.
I am so deeply inspired by this man and what he means, that I even wanted to reach out to him and work for his new foundation, my degree in International Relations might fit in. But at the same time I wanted to become M.I.A.'s best friend and close colleague, so I was a bit distracted. I think I actually wrote a whole assignment based on M.I.A. for university, a project where native artists would collaborate (on their terms) with artists like Childish Gambino and M.I.A. It's incredible what you get away with. Be bold is the lesson here.
Love for Racing
Boldness is the key in racing too, among a truly ridiculously long list of other important things. The latest example, the strategy switch in Barcelona. How do you feel after pulling that one off? I am asking, please tell me every angle of it.
Let me describe to the one's who don't know:
Lewis Hamilton is the current reigning World Champion, seven times he has done that. Seven. Then there is this new kid, a full analysis on this will follow upon request, but Max Verstappen, a record breaking Dutch dude with a lisp, quick as shit. Well, obviously, drama is about to ensue, and it does a lot of the times over many years, behind the scenes too. Anyway, Barcelona, boring track, everyone knows that, the weekend is kinda weird, loads of stuff happens, as usual, the race starts and basically, Max takes the lead. But a strategy change is exactly what Mercedes needs, guys you are incredible. They pull Hamilton in, "BoxBoxBox", get him on some new sexy tyres and away he rushes, crushing those lap times, gaining on Maxy-boy. The suspense is building, the jets are ready to fly, the jaws are clenched, guts are dropping, the string quartet is thrillingly playing in the background of the subconsciousness until the overtake comes, quick as the wind. And relief. Or pain. Hamilton was absolutely loving life, but Max, he even later said that he knew his tyres were gone when Hamilton pitted twenty laps earlier. Hamilton won. And this is just the two drivers, there are twenty on the grid. Some more exciting, some ice-cold, bwah.
How can you n at least acknowledge the magic of it? Everything goes and ticks in a special way, every action has a consequence, it all grows on its own by now. Decisions on survival are made all the time, Drive to Survive is a good title, I'll give them that. Might slow down on the spinning of stories, but overall, I enjoy the content. Goddamn, to be part of that world.
Could This be Part of my CV, Please?
My grandmother keeps asking me "what I am". Not my sexual orientation, she only cares that I'm happy, mediating and have kids one day. She promised me a cat for my 25th birthday, a black one, just like my mum had when I was born. Hm.
She means my profession. And the best I could give her was an intellectual in the making, a future academia member, a researcher, maybe a journalist. Then the ideas got more abstract. I wanted to be the geopolitical advisor for a law-firm in London. But recently I've been liking this blog, the honest space that I have created, letting me carve paths for my future through the eyes of my past. If anyone wants to talk to me for any reason, please do. I am here to share my experiences, not shield them.
So, can all this be part of my CV?
With love,
Anna
LH44
*I'm a foot-soldier. Hila is the creator of life.